Most people spend too much time thinking about what they don’t want in a relationship. But what would happen if they flipped the script and spent time thinking about and planning for the things they do want in a relationship?
Visualization can be a powerful tool to help you attract your ideal partner and create the life you desire.
Spend time thinking about, planning, and visualizing what your ideal partner would be like. What would your lifestyle look like?
You might settle for anything if you don’t know exactly what you want.
Spend some time to write down what you want in someone. It’s a healthy exercise because if you do this, you can recognize the traits when you witness them in real life.
You literally have to create that mental picture for yourself of what you want from your life, from your relationship, and how you want to feel on any level (physical, mental, emotional, spiritual, and material) because if you don’t know what you want, life and relationship will just happen to you.
Be clear and be specific about it. Be specific about how it feels in your body.
According to the Law of Attraction, when you put your clear wishes out there to the Universe, it will help you manifest exactly what you wish.
The Universe doesn’t understand No or Don’t. If you keep thinking: “I don’t want this, “the Universe hears: “I want this.” For example, if you’re going to Google and you type in the search “I don’t want to look at porn,” what is going to pop up on the screen? Porn.
The Universe is the same; it will bring into your life what you consistently focus on (without the “Not”). It applies to your relationship and the image of the partner you want to attract. So, create a positive image and trust the Universe to handle the details.
This practice isn’t just about attracting the right partner – it’s about becoming the best version of yourself. It is important to look deep into these traits because you can start to look at yourself in these respects and see where you can improve yourself.
This process helps you grow and evolve, making you more likely to attract the healthy relationship you want.
So, a list of character or personality traits, life situations, and even superficial traits is a good place to start.
Take a red piece of paper (a tip from good Feng Shui practice), divide it in half, and on the left side, write down what you want to see in your partner and your relationship. On the right side, write down things you might not particularly like but can accept and live with.
There are no ideal people; we all have some flaws, so we are balancing the request with things that might not be ideal but still acceptable for us.
Perhaps you are looking for the following:
But remember, you never know who you might fall in love with. They might look different to your visualization and have a unique personality. You might even find yourself more attracted to this person than your previous partners.
So, keep an open mind, listen closely to your gut instinct when you meet new people, and be open to the unexpected.
Imagine the sensations you will feel when you are with this person
What kind of experiences will you share together
How will they make you feel when they are speaking to you
Important: see and feel these scenes in a dissociative state, like seeing yourself from a distance so your subconscious mind knows this is a reality you want to attract. Then, take action steps toward this reality – for example, sign up for a dating service, go out to meet new people, and join a meetup group with similar interests.
These are all ideas to consider, and you should listen to your intuition and how it feels in your body. The Universe will do its best to bring your heart’s desires to you.
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