The Power of Visualization

Most people spend time thinking about what they don’t want in a relationship. What would happen if they spent time thinking about and planning for the things they do want in a relationship?

Spend time thinking about, planning and visualizing what your ideal partner would be like. What would your lifestyle look like?

If you don’t know exactly what you want, it means you might settle for anything. Spend some time to write down what you want in someone. It’s a healthy exercise because if you do this you will be able to recognize the traits when you witness them in real life.

Law of Attraction

You literally have to create that mental picture for yourself of what you want from your life, from your relationship, how you want to feel on any level (physical, mental, emotional, spiritual and material), because if you don’t know what you want, life and relationship will just happen to you. Be clear and be specific about it. Be specific how it feels in your body.

According to the Law of Attraction, when you put your clear wishes out there to the Universe, it will help you manifest exactly what you wish. Universe doesn’t understand No or Don’t. If you are keep thinking: “I don’t want this “, the Universe hears: “I want this”. Like an example my partner in the Full Love Life Project likes to bring up: if you’re going to Google and you’re typing in the search “I don’t want to look at porn”. What is going to pop up on the screen? Porn.

So, the universe is the same, it will bring to you what you are thinking about (without “Not”). It applies to your relationship and the image of the partner you want to attract. Create a positive image and let the Universe handle the details.

It is important to look deep into these traits because you can then start to look at yourself in these respects and see where you can improve yourself too.

Write it down!

So, a list of character or personality traits, life situation and even superficial traits is a good place to start. Take a red piece of paper (a tip from a good Feng Shui practice), divide it in half, and on the left side write down what do you want to see in your partner and your relationship. On the right side, write down things that you might not particularly like, but can accept and live with. There are no ideal people, we all have some type of flaws, so we are balancing the request with things that might not be ideal, but still acceptable for us.

Perhaps you are looking for the following:

• Emotionally available
• A good listener
• Likes socializing
• Financially stable
• Loves travel and adventure
• Creative
• Intelligent
• Spontaneous
• Trustworthy
• Honest
• Integrity; will your partner do what they say they will?

But remember, you never know who you might fall in love with. They might look differently to your visualization and with a unique personality. You might even find yourself more attracted to this person than your previous partners. So, keep an open mind and listen closely to your gut instinct when you meet new people.

Tips for visualization

• Imagine the sensations you will feel when you are with this person.
• What kind of experiences will you share together.
• How will they make you feel when they are speaking to you.

These are all ideas to consider. You can read my blog about Steps to Building a Strong Relationship for some additional ideas or just listen to your intuition and how it feels in your body and the Universe will do its best to bring your heart’s desires to you.

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